Prayer Flag - Dark Mother Archetype

This is the 12th in a 12-month series of creating 13 prayer flags for one partner that is based on the book, THE CIRCLE OF LIFE by Davis and Leonard. You can opt in at any time. Those archetypes remaining include this Crone, the Dark Mother and the Transformer.

According to the book, the DARK MOTHER stage is that of impending or actual death. She is, as the Charge of the Goddess says, "I am SheWho is the desire of the heart of all beings. For I am the Soul of Nature, Who giveth Life to the Universe; From Me all things proceed and unto Me all things must return. "

We are a DARK MOTHER whenever we take a journey to the unknown and our way is filled with the sorrow of leave-taking. Death takes many forms such as leaving when we move and leave friends behind; or leaving relationships. It can represent a catastrophic illness, or disability. DARK MOTHER comes when we have nothing left to lose. This is a time of retreat and solitude. This is the time some of us learn to become a real bitch and only are willing to tolerate places where absolute truth exists. It is a time we see that we are no longer the woman we once were.

Select at least one of the her characteristics above, or one of your own, as a focus to create your prayer flag. If what you want to heal in yourself (and your swap partner) is something about this time in your life. You might want to think about a woman who stands strong that you know of or know who embodies this archetype.

You could print words on the prayer flag that affirm your nature in this archetype that was not or is not acknowledged by you or others; or you can celebrate the hope and promise of magic just over the horizon. (Again your choice) Anything you want is going to be perfect for you as you create, and perfect for your partner to receive.

Even non-machine-sewers can participate. You can buy Fat Quarters at JoAnn’s, or Hobby Lobby for under $2. Any sort of thread and needle will help you sew the seam closed in back. You could even hot glue the seam closed knowing it will come apart in weather, as well as gluing on any other accessories. Use a permanent marker to write words or draw symbols. Do an online search for examples & let your imagination take over.

Prayer Flags are cut at 6” wide and 12” long. The top is folded over 3” in back to make a sleeve for a rope the recipient uses to hang the flags on. Make sure you either add the rope or leave room for one to add by your partner. They are meant to disintegrate in the weather as the intentional prayer is answered, so ends are not finished and simple is better. Why simple? Beads, fancy threads can be dangerous to birds and other wildlife if swallowed. Remember to be kind to nature.

One option and not required: Include a piece of ribbon your partner can use to tie her PF outside that would go into the sleeve area. Your prayer flags can be of any color, any eco-friendly fabric and symbolize the sender’s interpretation of the Archetype. Please include a note with the swap name, your ID and any information you might wish to share about your creative process and what your intention for the PF is.

RECAP: Sender’s choice to make one prayer flag 6” wide by 12” long to be folded down 3” in back to make a sleeve.

Any color, any eco-friendly fabric, with eco-friendly accessories.

Select one aspect of the DARK MOTHER's Archetype for your focus.

Include note with swap name, your ID and information on your creative process

Send by date due (no flaking)

Please email me if you have questions. ++++Rate with kindness giving a heart, and with a 5 as long as sender meets swap requirements. Message your partner and me if are going to be late, and yet, do not flake.