tialisa

49 year old mother of two ..my son is 22yr daughter is 16yr. I am Native American (Yurok Tribe) and live on a Indian Reservation

I have tried marriage twice(one declared invalid) in my life...both were heartbreaking. Raised my kids alone with no child support from the father. Sometimes working three jobs to take care of the three of us. We never got on welfare, but i worked my rear end off to not go there.

I have a pen pal group on FACEBOOK called PEN PALS BY EMAIL AND SNAIL MAIL if you would like to join :) We have over 4,100 members all over the world.

I ADORE CATS AND HAVE ABOUT FIFTEEN OF THEM. :) They are inside/outside and 3 sleep inside at night.

BEFORE YOU LEAVE ME NEGATIVE FEEDBACK PLEASE CONTACT ME ABOUT ANYTHING YOUR NOT HAPPY WITH OR DO NOT RECEIVE. I AM NOT A FLAKER.

I like to feel inspired...too much negativity is no fun :(

MY OLD LIFE…Use to be a radio dj in my younger days and was totally into Too Live Crew, Beasty Boys, AC/DC, Easy E,,etc… the whole 80’s thing. Had my hair feathered…and loved it Partied hard (till the sun came up) and drank whiskey straight and chased it with any kind of soda. Spent 18 months in Hollywood California after high school…that’s where I learned to stay up all night. Hollywood Blvd and Vine was my stompin grounds. Back when Billy Idol was hot and Cindy Lauper..Hollywood had it all the spiked dyed hair and spiked jewelry.

saved and delivered from actual demons (I was there and I remember clearly).

Believe Jesus Christ is the son of God…and know there is power in his name.

I regret the life I lived before…but do not beat myself up over it. Many of the people I ran with are no longer living.

I try to be positive in my life and encourage others. Its not about making mistakes and judging…it’s about LEARNING FROM OUR MISTAKES. Don’t get me wrong…there are some people in church I would rather not hang out with too! Lol But all in all…God is God and he needs to deal with THOSE PEOPLE…NOT ME.  DISLIKES….people who live in a box and refuse to think outside “the box”.

Bible, Listen to me Satan, He came to set the captives free, how to be a happy wife of an unsaved husband, good morning holy spirit, they call me infidel, power holiness and evangelism, son of hamas, bruchko

I enjoy books on deliverance, counseling, phychology, addiction, and true stories.

I love writing inmates and accept all post cards anyone wants to donate to me. lol They love receiving random post cards! I have had inmate pen pals since age 17. I visited 5 prisons.

POST CARDS,

SAMPLES....PERFUME...HAIR PRODUCTS..MAKEUP, ETC...

Braclets.....especially tribal

Comfy socks

Sally Hanson SALON nail polish. Any color. My fav color polish is pinks, golds, reds

LIP BALMS (Rachel Perry is my fav) PERFUME OILS..fruity.yummy..citrus..musky.......Here are two very inexpensive places to order perfume oils

www.wholesalebodyoils.com/frbooil1ro.html

www.valeriesuncommonscents.com valerie only charges 4.95 for shipping.

DIDDL PAPER, PENS, STICKERS, ENVYS

ADDRESS BOOKS

SWAP CARDS

TEA TINS.....to store loose tea in

RETURN ADDRESS LABLES

HAND MADE JEWLERY

BRACLETS

SMALL BEADS (GLASS AND SHELLS )WOODEN (4MM, 6MM, AN 8MM)

BOOKMARKERS,

NOTE CARDS..

LINED STATIONERY OR...REGULAR STATIONERY

LETTER SETS (two sheets and matching envelope) or one large sheet and large envelope

STATIONERY PADS (any size)

TEAS...my favs so far are ........

KAUWGOMBALLEN SMAAK THEE....ALBERT HEIJN. someone sent me some and told me its chewing gum flavor. HEIBE LIEBE fruchtetee MIT himbeer vanilla aroma I like any kind of green tea and fruit flavored tea. also enjoy black flavored teas..
Licorice, ginger, chain, peppermint, vanilla. Trying new flavors is fun! LOOSE TEA OR BAG

ANYTHING NATIVE AMERICAN

DARK CHOCOLATES

GEL PENS...ALL COLORS LOVE EM (pink and baby blue are my favs) And so far my fav pens have been the PILOT G2 gel pens and the UNI-BALL SIGNO 207 gel....love the bright orange ink! :)

BRIGHT COLORED INK PENS

FINE POINT PENS

CUTE STICKERS

ANYTHING NOT EASY TO GET IN USA

LONG EARRINGS (Clip Ons) i can usually change them if they are not the POST kinds.

ANYTHING WITH ANIMALS

THINGS THAT MAKE ME SMILE( can be a cut out joke)

OLD PURSES or WALLETS(in good condition) animal print is awesome!

THOSE LITTLE PURSES THAT GO AROUND YOUR NECK...that are about credit card sized

TOP FAV THINGS TO GET ARE. GEL/GLITTER PENS..esp Pink and Purple , PERFUME OILS, , NOTE CARDS, STATIONERY.....lines on it is awesome POSTCARDS :) TEA....not picky but prefer herbal STICKERS. ...anything cute love animals

ANYTHING FROM OTHER COUNTRIES THAT IS UNIQUE, or that i just can't get

I LOVE SURPRISES TOO anything you think i might like....won't hurt to try :) I give hearts for anything extra, lol :) But you dont have to send me anything extra

Native American pals, and people in other countries. I love learning about other cultures, beliefs, ways of living, cultures, etc

Swap Teas, perfume oils, Fiine point or Gel, glitter and metallic pens, long earrings (clip ons), cute stickers, stationery,

Open to other things if you let me know if you have an idea of what you would like to trade.

Now enjoy Criminal Minds, The Lifetime for Women channel, like true stories, 700 Club, and I like the Church Channel :) The Big Valley, Doctor Quinn Medicine Woman, Bonanza, etc..

of course my kids have me watch other things with them sometimes. I do not watch much tv